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This is my alt Mastodon account and it is intended for a more limited and intimate audience.
My plan is to leave this account locked for now and to accept follow requests only from people who are already mutuals of mine on my main (unlocked) account: @miramarco
So if we haven't interacted that much before, please let's do that through that account first
Lots of love
mh (~)
And I’m still surprised by the idea that someone is thinking about me – at least, not just as one of the people they’re sending their invitations to
I guess someone finally muted the sighing project manager. His breathing was covering other people’s words today…
I feel like for the near future (but also for the rest of my life) it will be of critical importance for me to be confident about what I believe in, without budging on it because of other people’s pressure.
I need to feel sure that, even if it’s a lost cause, even if I’m the only one, even if I am aware that I am irritating, that it’s okay for me to be as loud as possible when I feel like my rights are not respected.
still about fawning
By the way, yesterday I found out that two things I usually find myself doing – spacing out in social situations and being more honest on social media than in one-on-one conversations – are also symptoms of codependency, i.e. the inability to express personal needs and boundaries in relationships. It makes sense in hindsight.
This is my more intimate account.
Feel free to boost/reply to any public toots.
I will accept follows only from close mutuals.
Hugs are welcome! {he/him}